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  • Writer's pictureTonya Lampley, Author

Lela Rochon & Bad Men

Updated: Aug 22, 2019


A book cover of Bad Men by Tonya Lampley
Bad Men

So over these #BadMen. This issue with #LelaRochon has me twisted a little. Tired of women having to go through this. Tired of women devoting their lives to men who aren't worthy of making a sandwich for. It's time ladies. Time we demand better for ourselves. It's coming out that her husband had children while they were married, mistresses had filed court cases against him. It's all too much.


The first thing we have to do is love ourselves....more than these men. If someone's not supporting you 💯 he needs to go. If someone can't be patient during periods when you're ill or when you put on weight, they need to go...immediately. Don't waste your time. When he shows you who he is the first time, believe him. Sometimes we hope for change, only to end up squandering our life away.


Lela Rochon will hurt for a while but I hope it comes to her very quickly that God just did her a favor. Revelation is a precious gift. I hope she awakens to the truth of who she is. A powerful woman, an artist and creator. And I hope she finds someone who will give her all the love she deserves if that's what she wants.


I'd be lying if I said I wasn't exhausted with all of this. Lying if I said I wasn't pissed about it. Tired of seeing my sisters mistreated and abused...mentally, emotionally, physically. Time to cast a vote in favor of ourselves. Time to out these #BadMen. Book coming soon. Sign up on my site to be notified.

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