You're here because you want answers...you want change.
Boy do I understand. Having spent decades living a life that wasn't authentic to who I truly was I found myself miserable, in spite of seemingly having everything; a great career, a good marriage. I repeatedly asked the question what's wrong with me?
What I hadn't realized up to that point is that absolutely nothing was wrong with me, but EVERYTHING was wrong with my life. I was mismatched for the career I was in, the marriage had cracks...all stuff that was fixable, but at the time I saw no way out of the life I had created and it was robbing me of peace and joy on a daily basis.
There is a great quote by Anais Nin that says, "When one is pretending,
the entire body revolts." Up to that point I had carefully constructed my
life the way I thought it ought to be...fancy house in the fancy suburbs,
professional career, sports car. Everything I'd dreamed of as a kid, I now
had. But unbeknownst to me there was so much more to creating a
As the months progressed the whisper turned to a nag, the nag to a moan,
the moan to a shout, "Tonya, you need to change your life."
Lack of understanding, fear, not recognizing my own worthiness...a myriad of things kept me from changing, kept me drudging on day by day. Tolerating, no joy, simply existing. And then one day it hit like a ton of bricks...
I was stricken with a medical condition. No one could name or cure it but I was really sick. Now I know it was just the soul's cry for me to let go of the life I thought I was supposed to have and find the one that was truly meant for me.
It's been a long journey. I've learned so much about myself, about what it truly means to live, where authentic joy and happiness comes from.
As a coach my work centers around merging the practical and the spiritual so that you experience healing, growth, expansion and most importantly find joy.
If you feel your life's missing something, if you've lost your peace and joy, if you know you're capable of doing, being or accomplishing more...don't put it off another day. You're here because it's time. A better life awaits. Contact me and let's talk to see if coaching is right for you.
I look forward to seeing how I can help!