There is an impossible standard of beauty for women. Men pick us apart, other women pick us apart and we pick ourselves apart. Society is hard on women in general. And especially hard on black women. The European idea of beauty has dominated for decades. The elusive blond, stick straight long hair and thin frame has been the holy grail of appearance. And while it’s changed somewhat, it's only by degree. The exotic looking woman has kind of crept into the frame and expanded th